Femdom toys play a vital role in our female-led relationship (FLR). Actually, I think that living an FLR without toys is boring or even impossible. Julia has already written several posts about femdom toys and what she likes most. Here are some of the posts in case you want to check them out:
However, today it’s my turn. I want to tell you about the toys I like most — and probably inspire you to try some of them. Although we’ve tried and used tons of different toys, I decided to focus on three. Why that? Because those three are my must-haves — femdom toys I don’t want to miss. Actually, they have become much more than just a toy. But well, let’s have a look!
Essential Femdom Toys #1 — Chastity Cage
It might surprise you, but the chastity cage is definitely on my list of essential toys. When I read discussions about the chastity cage, I often get the feeling that people think the sub has to wear the device against his will. I don’t think this is true — at least not in my case.
Although I hate the cage sometimes (lol), I enjoy wearing it most of the time. I recently put together my experience and wrote about the benefits of wearing a chastity cage. You can read the post here: 7 Reasons Why You Should Wear A Chastity Cage).
If you want to try it and find a good chastity cage, I recommend checking out Stockroom.com or Sexy Fun World. Both online shops offer a wide range of chastity cages at reasonable prices.
Essential Femdom Toys #2 — Face Strapon (Penis Gag)
I love to pleasure my wife. Moreover, it turns me on to pleasure her while being locked in chastity. In this case, a face strapon (or penis gag) is the perfect femdom toy. It’s just an incredible feeling to be so close to her pussy or ass — to smell her, taste her and pleasure her while being denied at the same time.
Therefore, I am very thankful that my wife loves to ride the face strapon from time to time.
Even if you are not into femdom, you should try it — it’s an amazing feeling for both partners.
My favorite face strapon is made of black leather and comes with a removable dildo that fits easily through the metal ring over my mouth. Accordingly, the curved head forces me to be silent while my wife allows me to pleasure her with the dildo facing outwards.
If you want to check out the product, you can do this on Stockroom.com
Essential Femdom Toys #3 — Leather Collar
Collars hold much more meaning than decoration. A collar signifies title, ownership, control, and even devotion. That’s probably the reason why I added this femdom toy to my favorites. Undoubtedly, a collar doesn’t hurt (at least in most cases ;). Nevertheless, from my point of view, it is one of the strongest femdom toys.
I love wearing a collar at home to show my devotion at any time. And from experience, I can tell you that wearing a collar initiates a different kind of thinking — for both partners.
On top of that, it is the perfect toy for beginners. Therefore, if you’ve just started to explore femdom and female-led relationships, you might want to start with a collar.
Here’s the link to Stockroom.com to check out my favorite collar (actually the one I am wearing right now while writing this blog post).
What’s Your Favorite Toy?
As always, I would love to hear from you. Wether you are a sub or domme — tell me about your favorite toys and why you like them. Just leave a comment below!
