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Daily Femdom Ideas #18 — Red Light, Green Light

Today’s femdom idea is a fun game. Well, at least for me — probably not that much for my hubby. The game is called “Red Light, Green Light.”

In case you haven’t heard yet, the rules are simple and explained quickly. The hubby is allowed to stroke his cock while playing the game. Therefore, he is allowed to enjoy some pleasure.

However, there is a catch. I command him with “Red Light” or “Green Light.”

When I say, “Green Light,” he is allowed to stroke. Conversely, when I say “Red Light,” he has to stop stroking immediately.

It sounds simple and can be super cruel. Let’s add some details.

The Ultimate Tease

There are a couple of things to mention when discussing “Red Light, Green Light.”

No Orgasm Guarantee

Although the hubby is allowed to stroke his cock (which also means he is allowed to take off the cage during the game), there is absolutely no guarantee that he can cum. Actually, it depends on my mood if I let him cum, ruin his orgasm, or just put him back in the cage after playing a bit — without any orgasm at all.

Stroking Variations

Besides the plain “red light, green light,” you can enhance your commands with additional instructions — for example, “green light, only one finger,” which means he can stroke only with one finger. Instructions I usually use are:

  • How many fingers are allowed
  • Where to stroke (only the tip, the balls, etc.)
  • The speed (slow, as fast as you can)

Verbal Humiliation

As always, I spice things up with some verbal humiliation. That can range from telling him how pathetic he is to talking about my last night with a bull. Always depends on my mood.

Countdown

Red Light, and Green Light can be perfectly used to do some countdown at the end. That means you give him the green light and a certain amount of time (e. g. 10 seconds). If he manages to get off in ten seconds, he is lucky — otherwise, he has to go back into his cage frustrated. Of course, you should take a duration that is challenging for him.

Why We Love Playing Red Light, Green Light

As already mentioned, “Red Light, Green Light” is more like a game than a heavy femdom technique. Certainly, depending on how I play it, it can become super teasing and frustrating for him. However, this is actually rarely the case. It’s really more like a fun thing.

The Perfect Game For Beginners

If you have just started to explore the world of femdom and female-led relationships, Red Light, and Green Light can be the perfect things to get started slowly. As the dominant woman, you can already start to show your dominance and practice giving him commands. On the other side, it is the practice for the hubby to do what he is been told — and learn to control his orgasms.

What Do You Think?

Have you played red light, green light yet? Did you like it? Let us know your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

Julia FLR
Julia FLR
My name is Julia, and I am excited that you found your way to my blog. I live the lifestyle of a female-led relationship together with my hubby Max. On this blog, I share my experience, stories, and more. However, this blog is not solely focused on FLR. You will find tons of sex toy reviews and much other stuff — basically, everything I am interested in. Enjoy your stay. Much love, Julia.

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