Femdom CBT, really? If you’ve been following this blog for some time, you may know that —usually— my hubby and I are not into the “physical pain” part of female domination. Conversely, we believe psychological domination can be much tougher than physical pain. Anyways, it is just the way it has developed in our relationship. We get super turned on by things like cuckolding, chastity, or verbal domination plays. On the other side, whipping, for example, doesn’t turn on.
Nevertheless, there are a few exceptions (as always). One of them is spanking, which I already talked about here: Daily Femdom Ideas #8 — Spanking. And today, I want to talk about another exception we’re both thrilled about cock and ball torture (CBT).
What femdom is CBT about?
Let’s start with a short explanation in case you haven’t heard about femdom CBT yet. However, I guess the name says it all. Femdom CBT means the woman takes special care of his cock and balls. Probably the softest version is simply squeezing and clapping his balls or cock.
But, as always, in the world of femdom, CBT can get much heavier, especially when you start using toys (we will talk about that later on). Another extreme form of CBT (one we don’t practice) is kicking his balls (ouch).
Why do we like it?
I have to say that CBT has become a usual thing within our femdom or female-led relationship. I guess there are three main reasons. First of all, since my hubby usually wears a chastity cage, I started to pay more attention to his balls. So I browsed through the internet, found out about CBT, and slowly started integrating it into our sex life.
Second, and more importantly, it is a wonderful way to show him who’s the boss. I mean, what can be more humiliating for a man than a woman grabbing his balls and telling him “your balls are mine.”
Finally, it is something my hubby enjoys too. He likes to receive some light CBT. But don’t think I am doing it because he likes it. Since he likes it, it is the perfect way to frustrate him even more (at least most often 🙂
How we practice femdom CBT
Actually, we don’t have a storybook, but I usually integrate CBT into our sex life. Therefore, it depends on what I am up to. Let me give you a few examples:
- Here’s a usual setup: My hubby gets the pleasure of me facesitting him. While it takes care of my pussy and ass, it is the perfect situation to do some nice CBT. Slap his balls, squeeze his balls, etc. You can’t imagine how this turns him on and how much it improves his tongue skills.
- What I also like: When I decide it is time to tease & deny him a bit, it is quite common that I unlock him and command him to put on a ball stretcher or splitter. These toys have become some of our favorite toys recently. If you haven’t, you should definitely try it out!
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Be Responsible!
Now, before you call your hubby and kick his balls, we want to emphasize that we are careful when it comes to femdom CBT at any time — so you should too. It is one of the most sensitive parts of his body — therefore, take it step by step and test what you like.
What do you like about femdom CBT?
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