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Daily Femdom Ideas #12 — Helping the Wife To Get Ready

Today’s femdom idea is an extraordinary “thing.” On the one side, it is probably the softest way of femdom, but on the other side, it can be so highly intense. So what I am talking about? Today’s idea is about helping the wife to get ready for a date.

You may ask, “Huh? What the heck are you talking about?” So let me explain and tell you why it can be so hot for both partners.

What is this femdom idea about?

Ok, first of all, this idea —usually— has a pre-requisite: The wife has to have a lover. Therefore, you should be ok and have already introduced some hotwifing or cuckolding. But no worries, if you haven’t (yet), today’s idea can still be a great way to excite you.

So, the basic idea is that you (the wife) let your hubby help prepare you for a date. And that can incorporate many aspects:

  • Letting him prepare the bathtub and spoil you while you are bathing.
  • Letting him shave your legs or even your pussy.
  • Commanding him to massage you with oil so your skin is perfectly prepared for your date
  • Letting him select the underwear and clothes
  • Commanding him to worship your pussy, feet, ass, etc., so you are prepared for the date.
  • Letting him dress you and put on shoes
  • etc.

As mentioned, it works best if you are going on a date. Nevertheless, living a cuckolding/hotwifing lifestyle is a huge step. Therefore, if this is not what you want, you can still enjoy this roleplay and continue with some strapon or dildo action afterward.

Why the “helping your wife get dressed” femdom idea is so hot?

Like other femdom ideas, we presented the exciting part that happens in your mind. The man totally submits himself and helps her wife to be perfectly prepared for another man. Just imagine the thoughts running through the man’s mind when he dresses his wife.

He can see his wife’s fantastic body, which he loves so much. But at the same time, he knows that he won’t be allowed to enjoy her. He is just here to get ready for another man. Especially when he is in chastity, this idea can drive him even more crazy.

Of course, you should have some intense conversation during the entire session. As the wife, you should tell him what you are about to do. You can also tell him what a good boy he is and helps his wife get ready for other men. He will love it 🙂

How do we play it?

Max and I both love this game, and it is something we do regularly. We do it almost whenever I am about to meet another man, but sometimes to have some roleplay at home.

We usually start with Max preparing a bath for me. He then massages my feet and shaves my legs before he is allowed to massage my whole body with lotion.

For Max, this moment is very special since it is one of the rare moments when he is allowed to see me naked (ok, sometimes he has to use a blindfold). Moreover, he is allowed to lick/kiss/worship my feet, ass, and rarely pussy.

Afterward, he is allowed to select my underwear and dress I should wear. While he dresses me, he must tell me what he wants me to do when I am together with another man. I can tell you, this excites him so much.

During the session, Max has to be naked and locked in his chastity device.

And as I write these sentences, I get really excited and think we should start some roleplaying now. Max! Can you please prepare the bath?

What about you?

We are always happy to get your feedback. Did you like this femdom idea? Have you tried it? How do you play it? Just leave a comment and tell us about your experience!

Julia FLR
Julia FLR
My name is Julia, and I am excited that you found your way to my blog. I live the lifestyle of a female-led relationship together with my hubby Max. On this blog, I share my experience, stories, and more. However, this blog is not solely focused on FLR. You will find tons of sex toy reviews and much other stuff — basically, everything I am interested in. Enjoy your stay. Much love, Julia.

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