I want to be very frank right at the beginning: I’ve got quite an ambivalent relation to spanking. On the hand side, I love to watch femdom spanking videos or look through femdom spanking captions with my hubby. But, conversely, I am not the biggest fan of active spanking. But wait, let me tell you the details.
What I don’t like when it comes to femdom spanking
Let’s start with the part I don’t like (spoiler: there are a couple of things I like). If you follow my blog, you already know that our female-led relationship is rarely based on (physical) pain. Usually, I prefer the subtle pain — orgasm denial, verbal humiliation, and similar stuff.
Therefore, most spanking types, such as paddling or boarding, are just too heavy. I don’t enjoy giving it, and Max doesn’t enjoy receiving it. I guess it’s just another example that everyone has to find their preferences.
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Sometimes I Love Giving a Good Bare-Bottom Spanking
But as I mentioned, I like some things regarding femdom spanking. First and foremost, this is about spanking Max’s bare bottom with my hand.
However, the actual “spanking process” is secondary. What really turns us on are other things. We both like CFNM (clothed female, naked male), and spanking is a perfect way to do it. Giving him the order to completely undress and lay across my lap already turns us on.
If he doesn’t wear a chastity cage, he usually gets hard in seconds when he stands before me — naked. And that’s the perfect starting point for some verbal humiliation. “Looks like my little boy is getting hard because he knows he gets spanked.” For him, it is a mixture of excitement and embarrassment—something I really love.
Usually, he is required to put his dick between my thighs while I spank him (softly). And I can tell you, with some more verbal humiliation while spanking, his dick gets harder and harder. Once, he was turned on so much that he came between my thighs — well, this led to some more spanking and humiliation.
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Femdom Spanking — What You Should Know
As much as I love various femdom techniques, I think agreeing on any form of physical pain before practicing it is essential. Max and I had that discussion very early, and both decided we only like some soft pain.
Therefore, before you turn your hubby’s bottom into a burning field of red skin, you should talk to him and find out if he is calm.
What’s Your Opinion?
Do you like femdom spanking? Soft or hard? How did you start, and how often do you practice it? We’re always happy to get your feedback. Let us know your thoughts in the comments!
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