In today’s post about daily femdom ideas and inspiration, we discuss one of my favorite toys: The Fleshlight. I guess you might wonder how to use a Fleshlight in the context of female domination and a female-led relationship. But I tell you, you definitely can.
How The Fleshlight Came Into Our Sex Life
As always, it is all about the context. And in fact, the Fleshlight has become one of the femdom toys we use regularly. Actually, the idea was born the first time I denied my hubby to have sex with me for the first time. I thought it might be fun to see him using a toy instead of fucking my precious pussy. And you know what: I was absolutely right!
How I Use The Fleshlight In Our Femdom Relationship
There are two “use cases” for us.
Fleshlight To Humiliate — Part 1
First of all, I use the Fleshlight as a toy to humiliate my man. As mentioned above, I let him fuck the Fleshlight while he was denied having sex with me.
Of course, this goes along with some joyful and spicy verbal humiliation. I keep constantly telling him that this is the only pussy he is allowed to have. He is not allowed to sleep with me, doesn’t get a blowjob, or anything else — just the Fleshlight. Are some more details needed? Here are some of my favorite phrases (and I think he loves them):
- That’s all that little-dick hubbies get — a plastic pussy. Only real men get real pussies.
- Enjoy your new girlfriend because this is all you get. You will never fuck a real pussy again.
- Should I tell your friends you are only allowed to fuck fake pussies? I guess they would love you. You have that hot wife, but you are not allowed to fuck her – hahaha.
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Fleshlight To Humiliate — Part 2
And here’s how you can spice things up a bit: I use the Fleshlight in our tease and denial games.
That means he is only allowed to fuck the Fleshlight but is not even allowed to cum. I can tell you: I love it 🙂
If you combine that with the first part, you can really drive him crazy. Poor hubby is only allowed to put his dick in a fake pussy but not even allowed to come. Priceless.
Other Combinations
Of course, you think of using the Fleshlight in other combinations:
- He has to lick the Fleshlight clean after he shoots his load in it.
- He has to train his oral skills using the Fleshlight.
- He has to leave his chastity cage on and has to fuck the Fleshlight while wearing the cage.
- And many more 🙂
Our Favorite Fleshlight Store
If you want to spice things up or be as mean as I am, you check out our favorite Fleshlight shop: Fleshlight.com. They offer all types of Fleshlight at unbeatable prices!
What Do You Think About Fleshlights As Femdom Toys?
What’s your opinion about using a Fleshlight in femdom sessions? Let us know your thoughts or experiences on how to use it. Just put a comment below! We love to hear from you and get inspired too!
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