It gets yummy! In today’s post about my favorite femdom ideas, it is all about men eating their own cum. Actually, something men will hate in the beginning, but also something I consider essential. And will tell you why in this post.
How Does “Eating Own Cum” Work
However, before we dive into my devilish thoughts about cum eating, let’s quickly provide you with some details about cum eating. In fact, letting a man eat his own cum is pretty simple. Whenever you allow him to cum (this should rarely be), he is demanded to eat his mess afterward.
You can think about different approaches to let the man eat his cum. Here are a few inspirational suggestions:
Lick You Clean
This is probably the most enjoyable way for him to eat his own cum. Then, you allow him to cum on you, for example, for feet, legs, or ass, and command him to lick you clean right after (by the way, this is also an excellent first step to licking you clean after a cuckold date. I will talk about that in one of my following femdom ideas).
As mentioned, this is the most enjoyable form since he can lick your feet, legs, or body part.
Clean the Floor
Instead of allowing him to cum on you, it’s also an option to let him cum on the floor. Accordingly, he has to clean the floor with his tongue right after. Compared to the first option, this is obviously less enjoyable — but sometimes necessary.
Cum In His Mouth
And here’s an advanced and super humiliating option. However, this option needs the man to be kind of supple. Make him lay on the floor and then put his feet in the air so that his cock is more or less in front of his face. You can also use some BDSM toys to pull up his legs. Now you can jerk him off and let him pump his load directly into his face.
The approach is a bit different from the others and not that easy. However, the result is fantastic, lol.
The Idea Behind “Eating Own Cum”
So here’s why I think eating his own cum is essential and should be part of a female-led relationship.
Ultimate Humilation
Eating their own cum can be considered the ultimate humiliation for men. Just think about what the porn industry is telling and showing you: Men who blow their load on women, bukkakes, creampies, etc. But not in a femdom relationship!
This poor guy is not allowed to blow his load. Instead, he is required to clean and eat it. Just like a good girl.
As always, I prefer to add some nice verbal humiliation whenever he has to eat his cum. For example:
- “Be a good girl and swallow it.”
- “Don’t you wish to swallow other guy’s cum too”
- “That’s how it should be. I eat cum from other guys, but you must eat your own.”
Don’t Make Him Feel Too Good
I know it’s devilish, but this is what a femdom relationship is about — sometimes. Letting him cum is a huge gift for the man. And sometimes, they get too excited once they are allowed to cum. Eating his cum put his feet back on the ground immediately.
Moreover, it is really hard for him to do it directly after he has an orgasm. It’s really tough and mean.
Cleaning Is His Duty
In a good female-led relationship, it is his duty to clean the house. Accordingly, it is logical that he has to clean up his mess too. Who should do it? Definitely not the woman. And that’s how you should tell him: You make the mess, you clean it. Period.
Eating Own Cum Extra Tip
Here’s a little tip: Whenever I want to be super mean, I don’t allow him to have a normal orgasm but ruin it. However, he is still required to lick his cum. So that mean he did not have the pleasure of a real orgasm but the humiliation of eating his own cum. I can tell you this is priceless.
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