Today it gets dirty 🙂 We talk about panty licking. And this is not about some fresh, clean but nice, sweaty, dirty, worn panties.
But before we dive into how and when I let Max enjoy my panties, I would like to give you some background on this femdom idea and why panty licking has become an essential part of our female-led relationship.
The Idea Behind Panty Licking
In many femdom or female-led relationships, the dominant female part creates a certain distance from the sub. This, at least in our case, is not about pushing him away but making him value things again. For example, if the man can have sex whenever he wants, he won’t worship you as he should.
In our relationship, I reduced the actual sex to a minimum. Moreover, my hubby is rarely allowed to touch my body — especially sexual body parts like my ass, pussy, or tits. Doing so becomes amazingly intense once he IS allowed to touch, feel, and enjoy these parts (actually, for both of us).
However, the more you reduce something, the more the desire grows. Moreover, you will recognize that the man finds new things to satisfy his need to be close to you, smell you, and taste you.
One of the things we discovered was Max’s foot fetish. Actually, Max was never into feet before. But as soon as I reduced the physical contact, he became more and more attached to my feet. I allow him to worship my feet since this can be perfectly integrated into an FLR.
Why and How Panty Licking
Similar to the foot thing, we discovered that smelling and licking my worn panties is another thing Max totally enjoys because and can be close to me. Of course, he is not allowed to grab my used panties whenever he wants. Actually, the femdom idea starts right here.
Being allowed to lick my panties is a reward he has to earn. And this is already a nice humiliating part. He has to behave in order to be allowed to lick dirty panties. So, whenever he behaved very well, I let him go and get one dirty panty. I know which panties he likes most, and therefore I play with them too. If he behaved extremely well, he might get the black thong, and sometimes it’s only the boring panties.
Combine it with Humiliation
Once he holds the desired piece in his hands, I usually integrate some humiliating tasks so he doesn’t enjoy it too much.
- He has to be completely naked before he is allowed to start licking
- He has to clean the panty with his tongue
- He has to wear the panties once he finishes licking
- And, of course, lots of verbal humiliation 🙂
Panty Licking Summarized
Panty licking, for us, is a softcore femdom practice we enjoy on a regular basis. Actually, it is more about his pleasure, but at the time, you combine pleasure with humiliation. Just imagine he is licking your panties clean, and you tell him, “wow, look at you, little panty licker. Other men with real dick fuck their wives and make them squirt and you, little boy, stand here, naked, and lick your wife’s dirty panty. And what’s that? Are you trying to get hard in your cage? I can’t believe it. This turns you on? You are pathetic.”
