Dominating your partner is certainly a key aspect of a female-led relationship. During the last few years, I’ve tried and tested many techniques and ideas. Most importantly, these methods have brought us closer and enhanced our connection. In this blog post, I’d love to share my experiences with you and introduce 10 ideas on how to dominate your man, husband, or boyfriend.
However, before we get into the details, you should be aware that the described techniques are not focusing on sexual aspects only. On the contrary, for me, dominating your partner goes way beyond the sex life.
How To Dominate Your Man #1 — Chastity
As you might already know, chastity is certainly one of my favorite toys. Moreover, I’ve found that implementing chastity can be a great way to manage my partner’s intimate activities, which in turn helps to reinforce my role in the relationship.
It’s been an interesting and eye-opening experience for both of us. On top of that, and as you can read in my post about Is Chastity A Must In Female-Led Relationships?, I am convinced that chastity should be a key element of every female-led relationship.
How To Dominate Your Man #2 — His Balls Are Yours
Besides locking his cock in a chastity cage, “taking care” of his balls is another way to make your husband clear that you are in control. Trap them, tie them, or use ballbusting techniques. He has to get aware that you own his balls.
How To Dominate Your Man #3 — Exploring new (anal) sensations
Introducing new experiences, like using an anal plug, has allowed us to push our boundaries and emphasize my role in my partner’s pleasure. Moreover, besides the chastity belt, an anal plug is usually the most humiliating toy. Subsequently, it will clearly show your partner that you are the one who is in control. Of course, we always prioritize hygiene and comfort to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience.
How To Dominate Your Man #4 — Use Gags
Using a ball gag has brought an interesting dynamic to our relationship. For me, this is not an every-time toy, but we really enjoy it occasionally. Moreover, it is definitely a toy that is perfect for beginners. Therefore, if you want to take the first steps towards dominating your man or boyfriend, I recommend integrating a ball gag into your sex life.
How To Dominate Your Man #5 — Nipple Play
Similar to using gags, nipple toys are also beginner toy. However, don’t underestimate the power of such toys. We’ve found that using clamps or pegs on my partner’s nipples can be a thrilling way to explore sensitivity and control. It’s an intimate and exciting way to own their body.
How To Dominate Your Man #6 — Restraints
Binding my partner’s hands when not needed has been a playful way to establish control and make things interesting. We’ve discovered that there’s something quite intimate about giving and receiving pleasure in this scenario.
How To Dominate Your Man #7 — Collars
Using a collar and leash to guide my partner around the house has been a fun way to explore control and obedience in our relationship. It’s a lighthearted and enjoyable way to connect with each other.
How To Dominate Your Man #8 — Regulating Routines
Oh, here’s one of my favorites: I’ve found that taking control of my partner’s daily routines, like when they can use the bathroom, adds an interesting dynamic to our relationship. It’s a subtle way to assert my authority.
How To Dominate Your Man #9 — Managing diet
By playfully restricting my partner’s food intake, we’ve explored a new aspect of control in our relationship. We make sure to prioritize health and maintain a balanced diet.
How To Dominate Your Man #10 — Exercise
Encouraging my partner to maintain a workout regime that aligns with my preferences has been a great way for us to bond over shared goals and stay healthy together.