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FLR: Why Both Partners Benefit From A Strap-On

Today it’s all about strap-ons. And I have to admit that it took a while until I started using one. Although I have been into toys since my teenage years, I’ve never bought a strap-on.

How the strap-on came into our female-led relationship

That changed a couple of months after I decided Max should wear a chastity belt. And I guess the reason is obvious 🙂 Although he was locked in his cage, I still wanted to have a dick from time to time. Certainly, his tongue skills have improved tremendously since locking him up, but sometimes you need a bit more. Since we didn’t start to have a one-sided open relationship then, I decided how to get some dick.

And a strap-on is the perfect solution for two reasons (actually three, but we will discover the last one later). First, I got what I wanted: A nice and hard penis between my legs. But secondly, and equally important, letting Max fuck me with a strap-on was the perfect tease and humiliation for him.

That’s why we really started enjoying him wearing the strap-on. There’s probably nothing more humiliating than giving the strap-on a blowjob while his dick is locked right below. Moreover, talking about me preferring a strap-on over his dick while he fucks me with the strap-on is just amazing — for both of us.

The power of women with a strap-on

So here’s the third reason I mentioned earlier. From time to time, I scroll through Pornhub to discover new femdom and FLR things we can try out. One day, I stumbled upon some pegging vids —meaning the dominant woman is fucking the man with a strap-on— and what can I say: I loved the idea right from the beginning.

So I told Max I wanted to try something new. On that evening, I wore a skirt but already had the strap-on beneath. I let him kiss me and even touch my ass —which happens very rarely— and asked him to put his hand under the skirt. You should have seen his face when he understood what was beneath. However, as always in our relationship, I knew he would love it. And I could see it from the very first moment.

He got on his knees and asked if he could pull down the skirt. I agreed. He immediately began to kiss, lick, and finally suck my strap-on. You can’t imagine how it turned me on. I started to slowly fuck his mouth, and he did really well.

In the end, it turned me on so much that I let him lick me to an explosive orgasm. I didn’t fuck him on that night. But that wasn’t the plan anyways. As always in our relationship, I wanted to introduce things slowly — and seeing him giving me a blowjob was just amazing enough. However, you can already imagine that this was just the beginning.

Love,
Julia

Oh and by the way here’s our favorite strap-one in case you want to give it a try. Pretty sure you won’t regret it.

Julia FLR
Julia FLR
My name is Julia, and I am excited that you found your way to my blog. I live the lifestyle of a female-led relationship together with my hubby Max. On this blog, I share my experience, stories, and more. However, this blog is not solely focused on FLR. You will find tons of sex toy reviews and much other stuff — basically, everything I am interested in. Enjoy your stay. Much love, Julia.

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